There is only one thing standing in between you and your dreams of confidence, love and success: dishonesty.
Most people think of themselves as honest people, but unfortunately this is just another lie. They have yet to define integrity or give the word "authenticity" meaning that makes sense to them.
While you might not deliberately deceive people very often, you still build up shame and prevent connections from taking place with the other forms of dishonesty.
Types of dishonesty:
Hiding your true thoughts and feelings to avoid confrontation
Not speaking your mind to avoid being judged
Not going for what you truly want in case it upsets someone else
Pretending to feel fine so that other people don't see your weaknesses
Putting up with manipulation and abuse
Telling little white lies to protect people's feelings
The list goes on and on. Everyone knows they do these things, but what they often don't know is that these behaviours are the CAUSE of most of their suffering.
Dishonesty is the direct or indirect cause of:
Superficially unsatisfying connections and loneliness
Conflict, resentment and hatred
Misunderstandings and missed opportunities
Low self-worth and confidence issues
Social anxiety and depression
Lack of meaning and purpose in life
Abusive relationships and ongoing bullying
Crime
Addictions
Again, the list goes on and on. But this is actually good news!
Why?
Because if dishonesty is the CAUSE, then honesty and integrity is the CURE.
Since 2013, I've been coaching people (and myself) on how to become more honest, until they live with integrity consistently. Before that, I was a Probation Officer for the Department of Corrections, where I rehabilitated criminal offenders and drug addicts by helping them become more honest.
I've helped people build incredible levels of integrity in the workplace, create better relationships and friendships, boost confidence, develop superior communication skills, and discover the meaning of "connection".
Literally 1000s of people have developed confidence, loving relationships, and satisfying careers from simply becoming a little more honest every single day. There is no doubt about it:
Honesty is the path to happiness.
In this course, I will show how to find the self-awareness and courage to become a fully honest person of integrity. We'll start slow, make sure you can handle it, and build up from there. You'll never have to go beyond what you can handle, but it will be uncomfortable at times, so prepare for that.
In this course you will learn:
The difference between honesty and dishonesty so that you're always aware of the truth (and can identify when others are lying)
How to stop people-pleasing and become more assertive, so that people trust and respect you, and you get what you want out of life
How to deliver honesty in a helpful way using the 5 Principles of Powerful Honesty, so that your truth is well-received by others
How to overcome your fears around being honest and build courage and confidence from a deep inner place
When to speak and when to stay silent, so that you build respectful balanced relationships and encourage others to be honest with you also
How to stand up for yourself and demand respect without dominating people unfairly
Together, we will help you become an honest person that you're proud to be.
Let's get started...
Dan Munro
Confidence Coach | Author | Co-founder of The BROJO Community
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